10 People describe the moment they realised their partner was cheating on them

1. Not the visit she was expecting

"Left her dorm room to get to a cancelled class. Decided to go back to her room to hear her fucking another guy (she was very loud) I knocked on the door and she answered thinking someone was going to ask them to keep it down."

2 Urm, I think you might have supernatural powers

"In a dream. I saw everything. I told her about it and she freaked out. (To be fair, I described the dude's bedspread, fish-tank, and his room. I have never been there.)"

3. There's more than one of you!?

"Same thing happened to me once upon a time. No one believes me, not sure I even believe it myself, but it happened. She wanted to meet at Starbucks to tell me something. Before she told me what it was I said "You slept with James." She was shocked and asked me how I knew. Told her I'd had a dream about it the night before that was a little too real to be a dream. I asked if there was anything else, she asked if I wanted to talk about it, I said no, got up and left."

4. Were they trying to be nice?

"My ex's friend took a snapchat of my ex (while she was still my girlfriend) hooking up with a dude at a party and sent it to me."

5. "I just happened to be going through his messages..."

"I picked up his phone to change the channel on Chromecast. It unlocked and opened the Messenger app where he was making plans with my roommate to hook up while I was at work the next day."

6. One month vs one year

"Didnt really catch her, but just found out this way. Had been with this chick for about 1 year. At our school summer camp, 1 guy from 1 class above me came up to me and straight up said "hey i hear your'e 'chicks name's new boyfriend, im her ex and just wanted to say hello. I didn't really know what to do of the situation but for some reason just asked when they broke up, and he said 'oh like 1 month ago'. Needless to say that relationship was over quickly."

7. Emotional cheating is still cheating

"As I said a few days ago in another thread. I caught her holding hands with another man, someone from her work, in the booth at Logan's. Our kids were with them. Emotional cheating is still cheating."

8. Heard it before she saw it

"I stopped by his house to surprise him. His bedroom window was open and she was very loud. I tried the front door and it wasn't locked so I let his dogs in the house (because it would piss him off) and sat on the couch for a few minutes thinking about how much power I had. How I could burst in and do anything... I wrote goodbye on his white board and left."

9. Yeah, think it was worse for the husband, to be honest

"Not sure who I am in this story. Worked with this girl, different departments huge company, we got friendly hooked up a few times. So out at a bar. I turn around and am face-to-face with her. Without missing a beat she introduces me to her husband. I don't know how but I played it cool."

10. There are so many twists in this story

"This was back in high school. His father found blood stained girls underwear in his room and he told me about the awkward confrontation when he assumed they were mine. They were not. Shortly after he started peeing blood and surprise, he had chlamydia. I did not have chlamydia. Who had chlamydia? My pregnant friend. Turns out it wasn't his baby, either."